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Female Hypergamy: The Ultimate Guide For Modern Men (2024)

What Is Female Hypergamy

What is female hypergamy? A lot of men may have heard about this concept, but they don’t really understand what it is.

Hell, some men deny that it even exists. Albeit, most of them are blue pilled, reality-deniers, but there’s still men that deny it, nonetheless.

In the same way that men are biologically polygamous, women are biologically hypergamous. This is important, as it will impact your future relationships.

I’m going to unwrap this concept of female hypergamy a little bit for you today, and better yet, teach you how it can be used to your advantage.

What is Female Hypergamy?

Female hypergamy, put simply, is a woman’s tendency to marry the best possible man that she can find. This stems from the biological imperative for her to get pregnant with the best genes possible, seeing that pregnancy is a 9 month investment for her.

Men, because they can have numerous kids from numerous women, tend to be more naturally polygamous. This is why men have a more insatiable sexual appetite, and it’s why men are applauded when they have sex often, whereas women are slut-shamed.

Women are programmed to get pregnant with the best possible DNA that she can find. Despite this simple concept, it actually has brutally devastating consequences. It’s why women shit test so much, and it’s why we’re so advanced as a species.

When you look at the genetic history of humankind, you’ll see that roughly 50% of men didn’t reproduce, whereas 100% of women did reproduce. What does this mean? It means that the top 10% of men get 90% of the women.

Hypergamy Definition

hypergamy definition

Upon hearing that women are naturally hypergamous, most guys get incredibly butthurt. “Women are all gold-diggers!” they shout. Well, sort of, not really.

This is actually where the MGTOW movement came from. Most people who go full MGTOW are extremely unattractive to women, so naturally, they’re mad about female hypergamy.

If this is you, then you need to get over your anger at women. You’re in like Phase 2 of swallowing the red pill. Don’t get mad at women for their biology.

Getting mad at women because they’re hypergamous is like getting mad at men for liking a nice ass and perky tits. It’s fucking stupid. It’s just in our biology to like those things, just like it’s in a woman’s biology for her to like a man with confidence, social status, and wealth.

It’s in a woman’s biological nature to want the highest value man she can get. This is what I call “primal attraction,” which is basically the most raw, animalistic type of attraction that there is.

Why do women cheat? Well, it’s usually for a few reasons, but hypergamy plays a big role in this. If her potential suitor is 10x your sexual marketplace value, she will be very tempted to cheat.

Beyond this, there’s other types of attraction, however, which I will elaborate on further.

Types of Attraction

define hypergamy

Now don’t go getting all upset, because you think women only care about social status and wealth, and they’re going to dump you the second they find out you have none.

Any guy who knows how to turn a girl on, knows that the reality is much more complicated than this. Saying that women only care about social status is like saying that the only thing men care about is tits. That may be true for a fling, but not for a relationship.

Most women actually care more about men who have core confidence, ambition, authenticity, and charisma more than they do social status and wealth…there’s a catch, though.

Again, female hypergamy comes in here—they’re attracted to the TOP 10% of ambitious men. In other words, you need to have more ambition than other men. You need to be more authentic than other men, be more confident than other men, and have more charisma than other men.

This is why it’s so important that you learn how to be a better man. You can’t change the fact that female hypergamy exists, but what you CAN change, is how attractive you are to women.

Whereas men are content with a cute girl who has a great personality, women are prone to cheating with a higher value man. I know this is a tough pill to swallow, but you can either be a butthurt little bitch, or accept it and use it to your advantage.

Using Female Hypergamy to Your Advantage

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Although it may seem hopeless if you’re in the bottom half of men, the truth is it’s actually easier to be in the top 10% of men than it has ever been before.

Previously, whatever social caste you were born into, you would likely die in. If you were born a peasant, you would stay a peasant; born a king, you would stay a king. There was no such thing as a sigma male.

Now, however, there’s TREMENDOUS social mobility—you can be born in the bottom 5% of men and work your way up to the top 5% within a matter of 15-20 years. It isn’t that hard.

Don’t believe me? Let’s do a little thought experiment. First off, let’s list some characteristics that women find attractive:

  • Social status (charisma)
  • Wealth
  • Confidence
  • Non-Neediness (AKA not having a oneitis)
  • Muscles
  • Decisiveness
  • Competence

How many men do you think ACTUALLY put in the effort to improve these things? In my experience, it’s almost none. Most men are losers, plain and simple.

How many men do you know that actively go out and try to start a business? How many men do you know that actively go out and practice game? How many men actually hit the gym and get jacked?

Hell, for that matter, how many guys know how to kiss a girl, in a way that’s smooth and confident? How many guys spend the time to learn game?

Almost none. Ascending the hierarchy of male attractiveness, and using female hypergamy to YOUR advantage, is actually a lot easier than you think.

The Top .0001%

hypergamy mgtow guy

Okay, time for the thought experiment. Out of 1,000,000 guys how many do you think actually go to the gym? Maybe 15%, so around 150,000 guys.

Okay, then out of that 150,000 guys how many do you think take the gym SERIOUSLY? How many get in REALLY good shape, with six pack abs?

Maybe 20% of them? IF THAT? Most guys don’t know how to get six pack abs, so I’d say it’s less than 1%, but let’s be generous and bump it up to 20%.

So now we’re down to 30,000. Now out of that, how many men do you think meditate? How many of them actually know how to meditate properly

Maybe 10% or so? That brings us down to 3,000 men out of a million that meditate and work out seriously.

Now how many of those men do you think have a business? Maybe 5% or less? That’s about 150.

How many of those men do you think actually have a SUCCESSFUL business? Maybe 1%? That’s less than two people. How many even invest their money, to keep getting more and more of it passively?

Do you see how quickly you get get into the top 1% of men? Just by working out seriously, meditating, and creating a successful business, you can literally be 1 in a million. It isn’t that hard when the entire world is lazy. Nobody’s competing against you.

People whine about female privilege, but do you know what? The world is literally your fucking oyster. NOBODY is competing with you, because NOBODY is willing to put in the work!

“But Jon, that will take so much time!” someone might say. No fucking shit it will take a lot of time, but who cares? What else would you rather do? Wake up in 10 years and be a mediocre wage slave, or be a fucking millionaire pimp boss? The answer is pretty clear.

Elevate Your Status

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The easiest way to get into the top 1% of men is to simply integrate good habits into your life. I’ve already written about some good habits for men before, so if you haven’t already, check that article out.

First and foremost, start working out regularly. If you don’t know how, check out my eBook, Body of an Alpha. It will tell you everything you need to know, and more.

Second, start meditating. I personally aim to meditate for at least 2 minutes every day, sometimes more. If you’re first starting, just do 3-5 minutes a day, and work your way up from there.

Here’s a full list of good habits for men, that will easily help you use female hypergamy to your advantage:

  • Work out 3-5x a week
  • Meditate for 20 minutes daily
  • Read for 30 minutes daily
  • Start a business (or sell eBooks online)
  • Work on your style
  • Go out 2-3 nights a week and learn game

It really isn’t that hard, guys. In fact just by reading this blog regularly, you’re probably already in the top 1% of men in terms of ambition.

How many men do you know that read success blogs regularly? Exactly. You’re in the top 1%, bud. You’re literally already there.

If you just learn a little bit about game, learn how women think, learn how to get a girl’s number, and improve yourself, you’ll literally be dating the girl of your dreams within just a few months. It’s not that hard, I’ve done it.

Female Hypergamy vs. Loyalty

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The big question on everybody’s mind is whether or not she’ll cheat…and to tell you the truth, it’s impossible to say.

Some women will cheat, and some won’t. Women are naturally prone to cheating with higher status men, so all you can do is find a loyal woman who loves you, and hope for the best.

As lame as that sounds, it’s really all you can do. Hypergamy is an integral part of female biology, so accept it, and move on.

Learn how to screen for manipulative women. Learn how to get a girlfriend that will actually be LOYAL to you.. Search for any and all red flags that a girl may have, and drop her if she has any. You’ll get good at it soon enough.

It was certainly much easier in the past to maintain a healthy marriage, but now with divorce laws being so lax, it’s easy for women to follow their hypergamous nature.

Don’t sweat it, though—just strive to improve yourself, find a loyal girl, and the odds of her cheating on you are extremely low.

Remember: just by putting in the work and having good habits you’re literally in the top 1% of men. What more could she ask for?

Common Questions

There’s a lot of common questions that people have about female hypergamy.

Questions like “Can you define hypergamy?” or “What does feminism have to do with hypergamy?” get asked quite a lot.

So, I’ve taken the time to put a nice “Frequently Asked Questions” section here, for your own convenience.

Hypergamy Definition

Hypergamy is just a term referring to women’s innate preference to date across and up the social hierarchy.

It is a term that is firmly based in biology, and millions of years of evolution. Contrary to SJW popular belief, it is, in fact, real.

Feminism and Hypergamy

In short, the theory is that society used to have social constructs such as religion, which encouraged women to be modest.

In other words, religion and social standards kept hypergamy at bay.

Now however, with feminism, women are encouraged to explore their sexuality—for better, or for worse.

This means that hypergamy has effectively been “let loose” on society.

Hypergamy and Marriage

Very poorly. One of the reasons we’re seeing a huge 50%+ divorce rate in the western world, is because of female hypergamy.

It’s always been there, but feminism made it far more acceptable for women to sleep around and divorce their husbands.

Many modern men feel the strain of hypergamy on their relationships, feeling as if it’s hard to find a decent woman.

The Red Pill and Hypergamy

The “Red Pill” and the “Black Pill” both state that in order to maximize your chances of dating in the modern world, you must acknowledge hypergamy.

You must not only do this however, but also work to set it in your favor.

This is the point of this article. To explain that you too can be in the top 1%, if you are willing to put in the work.

MGTOW and Hypergamy

Many men do not feel that putting in the work to get into the top 1% of men is worth it, so they simply go “MGTOW.”

MGTOW, short for “Men Going Their Own Way,” is a social movement in which men effectively defect from society, to pursue their own ends.

Theorists of the MGTOW philosophy claim that due to female hypergamy, most men are now pushed out of the dating pool.

I cannot personally argue with this—their reasoning is sound. I simply think it’s more profitable to focus on becoming the top 1%.

Hypergamy Doesn’t Care

“Hypergamy Doesn’t Care” is a phrase coined by Rollo Tomassi, author of The Rational Male, which sums up the ruthlessness of biology.

Essentially, it’s meant to encapsulate the idea that women don’t care about “emotional equity” or past loyalty.

All that hypergamy cares about is: are you a better choice for her, or not?

Want to Date More Girls?

Although it’s a tough pill to swallow, women are hypergamous by nature. They want the best possible DNA to get pregnant with, just as men want to spread their DNA to as many women as possible. Men want breadth of genetic spread, women want quality of genetics.

Don’t get butthurt about it. It’s just biology. Accept it, and ascend to the heights of status—become an elite man by integrating good habits into your life, and before you know it, you’ll be getting more pussy than 99% of men out there. I know, because I’ve done it before. I’ve gone from zero to hero.

Trust me, it isn’t that hard. I probably started off in the bottom 5% of men, and now I’m in the top 1% (just 10 years later). Do as I say, integrate the habits I recommend, follow my advice, and you’ll be golden.

If you REALLY want to take things to the next level, consider trying my dating book “7 Strategies” to become an alpha male.

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  • How to 10x Your Attractiveness to Women, With A Simple Concept That NO OTHER DATING COACH Seems to Talk About
  • Learn EXACTLY How to Turn Any Girl On, WITHOUT Becoming A Try-Hard Douchebag, Asshole, or Using Cheesy Pickup Lines
  • PLUS 4 Free Bonuses, Including Jon’s “Tinder Cheat Sheet” Which Shows You EXACTLY How I Banged Over 100 Girls on Tinder
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So, if you want to start getting laid with hotter girls WITHOUT becoming a douchebag, consider checking out 7 Strategies today.

If you have any questions or concerns, please, please, PLEASE do NOT hesitate to leave them down below! I hope you guys enjoyed the article and I will see you next time.

Frequently Asked Questions
❓ What Is Female Hypergamy?

Female hypergamy is the tendency of women to "date up" rather than date across, or date down. It's why women are attracted to men who have high status, a high level of wealth, and a high level of competence in any area of life.

Hypergamy is a phenomena in biology, which holds true across almost all species in the animal kingdom. Every woman wants to mate with a man who is "above her" in the social hierarchy, as it guarantees her better access to resources.

❓ What Are Hypergamy And Hypogamy?

Hypergamy is the tendency of women to marry and date up the social hierarchy, whereas hypogamy is the exact opposite. Hypogamy would be if women only wanted to date down (men who are lower status than them). This only exists in theory, however.

In reality, most women are hypergamous, which means they seek out men who have better access to resources than they do. Women biologically evolved to do this, otherwise they would not be able to secure resources for their potential children.

❓ What Is Optimized Hypergamy?

Optimized hypergamy is when a man optimizes his life in order to satisfy a woman's hypergamous nature. Examples of this might be Dan Bilzerian, famous rock stars, and other social celebrities who have wealth, status, and connections.

In order to optimize your life for hypergamy, you must improve your wealth situation, your charisma and social status, and your entire lifestyle as a whole. It's certainly not an easy task, but it's better than the alternative, which is not dating a lot of beautiful women.

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dick fitzwell
2 years ago

biological imperative for her to get pregnant with the best genes possible, guess that explains all the single mother knocked up by men who’s greatest contribution to society is the tossup between the damaged child they’ll never see or provide for they fathered, or the free labor they provide to the prison they are housed in.guess all that precious 24 gold dna is doing more good up his cellmates ass.

4 years ago

I am so glad I found this article. After reading so much nonsense online dating blogs it’s a relief to read from a man who actually gets it. Thank you Jon Anthony.

I am a woman and I am just fed up with the American dating scene and the battle of the sexes taking place here. My BMI is 18 and I used to be a model, so I’m not fat or ugly. I am one of the few girls given to their father in a custody battle so I know about “divorce rape” better than most of the guys complaining about it in online comments. My father remarried an Eastern European woman so my household has traditional family values. I can cook, clean, I have talents like art and baking, i am stylish, introvert, I am a card-carrying Republican and I am not a feminist.

What Jon Anthony writes about being in the top 1% of men is true. It is not that hard to work out a few times a week, maintain a healthy life, meditate, have a side hustle, take care of yourself, be good at sex, and then generously invite someone into your life. Women are doing it all these days–why can’t the guys catch up? Most guys are not doing even these basic tasks. If most women are succeeding, and they are hypergamous, and most men are not succeeding, well put that together. Why would a girl like me want to go out with a fat, ugly, slob? I want a MAN. Most women today actually get paid more than most men, so the whole golddigger argument is over and done. MEN, GET IT TOGETHER!

It seems like most of the men out there today secretly hate women. How can so many guys not understand what’s good about being in a relationship? Do you not have any friends either–a husband and wife are basically best friends with the hots for each other that fuck. Why is that so hard to find these days? The point of life is floating over your heads.

There are girls out there like me trying to meet someone but when we do, he tries to “play” us–the ultimate turnoff. Why would I want to give the time of day to a guy who would risk my body like that? If we get together you’re gonna cheat, too? My body is so important to me, I am not going to share it with someone who doesn’t respect me. Or he has a scarcity mindset and is so controlling, it’s a big turnoff and we wonder if we’re better off alone.

Like Jon Anthony says, find a loyal woman. You guys today are like the Eddie Murphy meme: “You can never get cheated on if you never have a girlfriend!” Men are more likely to cheat, anyway, so what are you all so afraid of? You are advertising that you are disloyal cheaters with your poor behavior. Not everyone thinks like that.

I chalk it up to a lack of respect across the board. People don’t have respect for each other — men or women — and they don’t even have respect for themselves. If you respect yourself it’s much easier to meet other people with the same values. The feminists created this damage and now you have MGTOW’s continuing it. It’s completely ridiculous. Men were never supposed to be pocket books for women and women are not c*m rags for men. RESPECT people!

We gotta rise above. Don’t be part of the problem. I am a hopeless romantic and still believe I can meet someone who isn’t a complete tool.

Don Templeton
5 years ago

Very interesting article and I’m already close to that 1% as my “competition” care more about their boyfriends in football tights or video games and look like garbage. I’m wondering if these women I see everyday have forgotten their hypergamy because it seems like they are obsessed with the worst kind of men — the thug, criminal, unemployed player that can’t wear a hat properly and can’t keep their pants up. What’s up with this phenomenon?

5 years ago

Nice article written by a child. Sell ebooks! wtf, you’d have to sell 100 per day just to make minimum wage haha imagine if every guy wrote and sold ebooks! laughable. I’m an attractive guy never go to gym, skint divorced father but have no trouble attracting women. I just tell them the truth and have a good laugh. They appreciate my honesty but then again i’m not looking to snag a self obsessed gold digger. Grown up man

Jon Anthony
5 years ago
Reply to  chris

All jokes aside, I’ll humor you. I never said honesty wasn’t appreciated. I never said you should snag a “self obsessed gold digger.” You’re assuming so much about me, and yet I’m the child. Funny how that works.

Rebellia Rose
6 years ago

This is the biggest crock of shit I’ve read in a great while. Thanks for the morning satire. Of course women care about your status! Men don’t care about a woman’s? WTFE! W/o ever looking physically, would you choose the struggling single mother of 3 or the readily available debutante set to inherit the family fortune? Duh. NOW. I will agree with the primal instinct analysis. On both accounts in regards to gender. But, this is 2018 and it’s called evolution love. We’re more than animals. Lastly, as a FemDomme, I’ll be the first to tell you that there is much more about a man’s wallet than it’s actual value…A man’s status of “power” is self-portrayed by his financial situation. Tell me I’m wrong. (Wow)

Jon Anthony
6 years ago
Reply to  Rebellia Rose

Go back to Tumblr

Rebellia Rose
6 years ago
Reply to  Jon Anthony

That’s hilarious. No, really. Hilarious. I’m still laughing. Let me explain: I would imagine that as the “Site Founder”, you above all others here would not only be knowledgeable about our rights to freedom of speech, especially in regards to the internet, but assumedly maintain at least a small respect for such freedoms. But you sure told me, huh? (Still laughing :D)

Jon Anthony
6 years ago
Reply to  Rebellia Rose

Okay, first off if I didn’t believe in your right to freedom of speech, I would delete your comments. Second, why don’t you come at me with an articulate, well-thought-out argument, instead of just a rant. Then maybe I’ll put some effort into my response. Until then though, go back to Tumblr.

6 years ago
Reply to  Rebellia Rose

LOL omg wow talk about drama queen over here. Rose, you are right this is 2018 and what’s happening in 2018 is the war between genders. Women and men are lost today. Women in 2018 are trying to be like men and Men in 2018 are trying to be like women like Bruce/Kaitlyn Jenner and that tranny athlete who won the women’s running marathon. As a result of that, the rate of breakups and divorces has skyrocketed alongside depression and financial struggle. We have lost ourselves and are struggling to find answers in order to regain our true identity. What makes us truly happy… The sooner you accept that and surrender yourself the better off you’ll be.. but judging by your comment it might be tougher to crack. Stay woke. Jon speaks the truth. genuine truth. Thanks Jon Anthony!

Jon Anthony
6 years ago
Reply to  DiDi_Beast

Great, well thought out comment. Thanks! 🙂

Jon Anthony
6 years ago
Reply to  DiDi_Beast

Great, well thought out comment. Thanks! 🙂

5 years ago
Reply to  Rebellia Rose

What you have incorrect here is the defination of ‘power’. The defination of power is not financial success, status or influence over others, but the degree to which we have control over our own lives.

As a FemDomme you uderstanderbly will have a negative reaction to Jon’s comments. The truth is we live in a feminised world. The majority of men will fall into a Beta role and will relinquish their frame control over to a woman in hope that she will be the one. That she will love him the way he wants to be loved. Paying a FemDomme is extremely Beta and the total, utter compliance of their power and frame as a man. You probably feel disgust for these men without realising it.

Women should only ever be a compliment to a man’s life, never the focus of it. When you start living for a woman you become that woman.

Randy Stegemann
6 years ago

“Women are programmed to get pregnant with the best possible DNA that she can find.”
I strongly disagree with that. A girl I was dating was very careful with me about birth control. College educated, not stupid, but she went and got pregnant by some unemployed loser who wasn’t around, never paid child support, just vanished. I guess a deadbeat has the best possible DNA that she can find. And my DNA was inferior because I have a career, a new car and a house.

Jon Anthony
6 years ago

Alpha fucks, beta bucks, my friend.

Randy Stegemann
6 years ago
Reply to  Jon Anthony

What a stupid and simplistic comment. I did fuck her, many times, but that’s not my point. I disagree with the statement you made about the programming. That may apply to lower forms of life, but not necessarily humans anymore. Too much revolves around appearances, not substance.

6 years ago

No his point is that you may have gotten pussy, but you were primarily a bank account to her. Whilst she wanted to fuck the tough guys/ cocky bad boys.

Randy Stegemann
6 years ago
Reply to  T182

While I get his point, you are both missing my point, which is to dispute his original statement about programming. My ex got pregnant with about as far as she could find from an alpha or a “tough guy/cocky bad boy.” You both appear to be fixated on only getting pussy. There’s more to life than just sex.

Anthony Thomas
5 years ago

Hold on a second, how much do you know about this guy or are you making judgements from afar with a hint of rage/jealousy?

Black women are an example of women having sex with Alphas (Gang Leaders, Drug Dealers, Gang Muscle/Contract Murders, Rappers, Athletes) that aren’t financially successful or responsible.

In your case, what could possible be the issue is that the loser is likely a friend from the past, somebody she connects with on a level she didn’t connect with you.

There are women who are fixated on certain things. I know quite a few women enamored with the idea of the Mandingo for example. No matter what this Black man does she overlooks it because he keeps dicking her down. Those relationships don’t last however, maybe about a year or two. Mostly because these type of men are not working or earning money above the table.

Black women have an acute problem here because of demographics the pool of available Black men is low, that often leads to the outburst you see around Michael B Jordan, Kyrie Irving, Tyrese, Todd Gurley and others who post pictures online with Non-Black women as their girlfriend or wives.

You are right there is more to marriage than just sex, but there’s also more to marriage than just status and money. The women that chase high status men often are shocked that their husbands are largely unavailable for long periods of time. One would think money leads to more leisure time but for many high net earners, those at the top of industries and in the financial world require long hours to continue that lifestyle that despite the loneliness women aren’t willing to give up.

That is until the day comes when said high net earner trades his current wife in on a newer model…

Randy Stegemann
6 years ago
Reply to  T182

While I get his point, you are both missing my point, which is to dispute his original statement about programming. My ex got pregnant with about as far as she could find from an alpha or a “tough guy/cocky bad boy.” You both appear to be fixated on only getting pussy. There’s more to life than just sex.

Randy Stegemann
6 years ago
Reply to  Jon Anthony

What a stupid and simplistic comment. I did fuck her, many times, but that’s not my point. I disagree with the statement you made about the programming. That may apply to lower forms of life, but not necessarily humans anymore. Too much revolves around appearances, not substance.

4 years ago

Man, we are telling you what we know, it sounds hard, but it is reality and you have to assume it. The hobbo guy you talked about was more attractive than you (that for sure) + could have better social skills than you. When a woman just want to fuck, she doesn’t care about bank accounts, she had studies, so why she will care about he being unemployed?
I hope you assume it and move on.
Best wishes.

6 years ago

Great article indeed. Provides greater content and value than many books.
However, despite enjoying the number-crunching of male percentages, and mostly agree with it, I see a fundamental piece of the puzzle missing:
With women, it is not about TRUTH, but APPEARANCES. The article presents a strong case encouraging men to be better, to get better and to actually become that 1% of males who get the pussy. And actually doing so would definitely increase chances with women. But most men try the more direct approach of “faking it”, and from what I have experienced, it pays more dividends if all what the man is looking for is to get women. In other words: going to the gym, having stylish clothes and good mannerisms and some game skills is all a man needs to get women. No need for loads of money or becoming an entrepreneur, nor self mastery, nor meditation, etc. Skillfull lying (in words, presence and overall outlook) and relentless interaction with women are far more effective to get laid rather than building a man from the ground up in all aspects. Whether this approach is the very best for the man himself and the society is debatable.
In other words: even after becoming that 1% of truly great man, achieved after 10,20,30 years of careful self-investment and success, this does not mean that women will perceive you as belonging to that 1%. A man far less developed but with better (luckier) heritage and background (economic, ethnic and genetic), being among the “lower 60%” can effectively steal a woman from the truly great man in a night of adequate combination of fashion, alcohol, social setting, time of the month, coincidences, etc. And in fact around 99% of men out there are playing that roulette (consciously or unconsciously) 24/7.

Anthony Thomas
5 years ago
Reply to  XUXU

You don’t need to be in the 1%, more like the top 20%. Lots of strange dynamics going on that is too lengthy to put here but men have more options than they have always have. The problem in Anglo society is that you’ve been told our women are the best women available so other women from other countries are not really an option or are they? Do you know what economic arbitrage is? You don’t have to be a 1 percenter to find an attractive woman who if your not a complete idiot won’t leave you even if are of lower social status.

There is no stealing of women. Define a truly great man.

If that man is so great he won’t lose his wife to a man of lower social status unless he’s neglectful, which often happens when your rich because of how you got your money. Passive income gives you the time to be with your wife and money isn’t everything. Lots of attractive women are quite happy not living a lower social status than they came from.

Paul Revere
6 years ago

Well MGTOW was right. the top items on any womans list is social status and money, lots of it. remember, when she’s playing with your dick, she’s distracting you from your wallets.

Jonatan Miranda Pedresque
6 years ago

btw, I live in Brazil. Here we dont have a lot of information about redpill in portuguese, and most people dont care about learn english. Learn english, for myself, was the best thing I ever did in my life. I think I will begin a blog about redpill in portuguese.

Anthony Thomas
5 years ago

I’ve been to Brazil, you don’t have the same problems. Women want to be hit on, women want to be wined and dined. Women will fuck you in Brazil, it’s not a problem. Now with that said, if you want to be with White skinned, European descent Brazilians of a higher social status, the same rules apply as laid out here.

Jonatan Miranda Pedresque
6 years ago

“Don’t hate the player, hate the game.” Even better, learn to play, and play to win.

5 years ago

The only way to win a rigged game is to not play. As the guy says, at best all you can do is snag one you really like and then hope. But if you get it wrong the downsides are huge. I’m happily married but I’d never take that risk again. MGTOW.

Adam Reis
6 years ago

Strong article. I’m not chasing after wealth or women right now, but obviously we have an innate masculine desire to procreate so I’m not pretending the title didn’t catch my eye, being a red-piller. More focused on my spiritual growth for now, having sworn off the pursuit of sex, money, and any substances for the next 10 months. Hypergamy is a lot more real than the global warming farce, yet it is rarely talked about. Men are more likely to hold a principle such as “honesty, integrity, loyalty” as a core value than women — who lie so much they don’t even realize it. They lie to themselves, lie when they fake smile and say “hiiiii!” to their frenemies, and lie to their boyfriends/husbands when they cheat — and are quite good at it. Woman’s nature.


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