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How to Get Laid FAST (3 Steps to Have Sex Tonight!)

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Most men have no clue how to get laid. They wander around, hoping that some girl will want them, and praying that sex magically happens.

Does this sound like you? Well, if it does, don’t worry—that was me for many years, and it’s how 99% of men still think, act, and operate.

Learning how to get laid fast is actually quite easy, if you know how, because fundamentally it comes down to a few simple concepts.

One of these concepts is known as “screening” or the inverse shit test—and today, I’m going to cover EXACTLY how you can use this to get laid.

How to Get Laid Fast

If you want to get a ton of sex with more women than you can count, you first need to understand the critical concept known as “screening.”

You know how women give men shit tests, right? If not, then read that article before we continue—it’s a huge secret to getting lots of sex.

The thing that most men don’t realize, is that you can actually shit test a woman for her sexual availability. In other words, you can give her little “tests” to see how willing she is to sleep with you that night.

Screening a girl does two things:

  1. Saves You Time
  2. Helps You Get Laid Fast

In fact, using a few of the screening tips I’m about to give you, I’ve slept with well over 100 women in the past several years—it’s that effective.

The Secret to Getting Laid

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Screening women simply means that you’re asking certain questions, and doing certain things, to determine if they want sex with you or not.

While it sounds simple, this is the secret to having lots of sex and getting laid often. You can do it at bars, for online dating, and more.

In fact, screening women is a key part of my strategy to getting laid on Tinder—-without screening, getting laid online would be impossible.

Screening is without a doubt the easiest way to get laid fast, whether you’re at a night club, at a bar, out with friends, or anywhere else.

3 Steps to Have Sex Tonight

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When you combine screening women, with being an attractive man who knows how to turn girls on, you will be an unstoppable sex machine.

The easiest way to get laid often is to simply become a more attractive man and learn how to screen girls. You can do this within a few months, easy.

Screening women comes down to three things:

  1. Looking For IOI’s (Indicators of Interest)
  2. Teasing Her Verbally
  3. Being Sexually Assertive

When you learn to do these three things in the right combination, you’ll find that screening works WONDERS for getting laid fast.

Rather than going out and wasting your time talking to girls who aren’t interested in you, you’ll end up investing your time and energy in the 20% of girls that will give you the biggest return.

Step 1. Look For IOI’s

The most important thing when it comes to getting laid fast is to look at what IOI’s women are giving you. This is the key to frequent sex.

IOI’s, or indicators of interest, are little body language cues that women give off when they’re sexually attracted to you. If a woman gives off enough of these IOI’s, it means she wants to have sex with you NOW.

Indicators of Interest

Many people don’t realize this, but when women want you to approach them, they’ll often give off signs that they like you.

A single woman, for example, might eye you from across the dance floor, and play with her hair—this is a clear cut “indicator of interest.”

Here’s some examples of IOI’s:

  • Playing With Her Hair
  • Giggling At Everything You Say
  • Hugging You, Touching You, etc.
  • Looking Deep Into Your Eyes

Just one of these IOI’s means a woman is attracted to you. If you notice that she’s giving you multiple, then you can probably have sex that night.

Once you notice her IOI’s, it’s time to approach her. Go up to her, meet her, and move onto step two to see if she wants to have sex with you or not.

Step 2. Teasing Her Verbally

If a girl gave you IOI’s before you even approached her, then use one of these great pickup artist openers to strike up a conversation. If you two already started talking, then just keep moving on.

The goal here is to tease her a bit, and say things that test her. If she teases you back, and flirts back, then great—she’s attracted to you.

For example, grab her bicep and joke about how she must lift. If she blushes and responds favorably, that’s a sign that she’s sexually into you.

If you DO try flirting with a woman, and she ignore you or doesn’t flirt back, that’s fine—keep trying a bit. Sometimes women will give you mixed signals, because they don’t want to appear too “easy” to their friends.

The secret here is to build a connection while simultaneously screening her for sexual availability. If she teases you back and flirts back, then there’s a high likelihood that she’s willing to have sex with you.

Step 3. Be Sexually Assertive

Once you’re getting indicators of interest from a girl, and she’s responding well to your flirting and jokes, it’s time to be more sexual with her.

As a guy, getting laid is on you—it’s not a woman’s job to pursue you and try to fuck you, it’s your job to try to have sex with HER and pursue HER.

So, once you notice that she’s clearly sexually attracted to you, it’s time to sexually escalate and start making your moves on her.

How to Sexually Escalate

Obviously, most people have a hard enough time learning to approach a woman, let alone actually flirting with her and having sex.

Don’t worry, though—it’s much easier than you think. In fact, if you really want to learn how to become a player, my blog is a great resource.

Here’s some ways to make your move:

  • Ask if She Wants to Dance
  • Tell Her to Come Outside For Air
  • Invite Her Back to Your Place

The point is that from here, all you need to do is try to “isolate” her in pickup terms. Figure out a way for you to both be alone together, so that you can end up having sex.

Increasing Your Odds

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These three steps will work in any scenario—it doesn’t matter if you’re at a bar, a night club, at school, or whatever. The principles are the same.

In addition to this, there’s a few things you can do to become more attractive to women and increase your odds of getting laid.

Here’s some tips to get laid faster and more often:

  • Improve Your Looks
  • Maximize Your Logistics
  • Leverage Online Dating
  • Get Great At Sex

I know that this might be overwhelming, especially because most people don’t ever bother to learn these things, so let me explain them more.

Improve Your Looks

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Some random pictures I took at the gym

One big thing you can do to get laid more often is improve your looks—most people are only living at 30% of their potential, probably even less!

So, when you invest some time into working out, eating well, and maximizing your appearance, you’ll stand above all the rest.

I recommend you read my ultimate guide to looksmaxing, because it covers exactly how to become more physically attractive from A-Z.

Your appearance isn’t the only thing that women care about, but looking good never hurt anyone. Stack all the cards in your favor to get laid more.

Maximize Your Logistics

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One of the reasons guys don’t get laid that often, is because they live in a ridiculously small bum-fuck nowhere cow town with like 100 people in it.

I get asked this question a lot. “Jon, how do I get laid if I live in a small rural town with a population of only 1,000 people in it?”

Do you want to know the answer, my friend? You DON’T get fucking laid if you live in a town that small! How the hell do you expect to get laid all the time if there’s only 2 hot girls in your entire town? You can’t.

Instead, move to a city where there’s lots of bars, places to dance, and cool things to do. Your logistics are absolutely key, so don’t ignore them.

Leverage Online Dating

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I’ve already covered dating extensively, so if you want to see the guides I’ve written on this, just Google “Masculine Development online dating.”

In short, I’ve used Tinder for years now, and have been able to get laid numerous times by simply following the concept of screening.

All you do with online dating, is you start off with a dirty pickup line, so that you “screen” the woman for sexual availability right off the bat.

From here, it’s like shooting fish in a barrel. If she responds and flirts back, you know to invest more time and energy into her. If not, unmatch.

Get Great At Sex

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Another awesome way to get laid more often and with hotter women is to simply become better at giving girls the best sex of their lives.

If you’re the first guy that’s ever made her cum, for example, how hard do you think it would be to have sex with her again? Pretty easy.

When women find a guy who gives them great sex, they usually stick around with him for a long time—because most guys suck in bed.

If you want to learn how to give women great sex, consider reading my guide to the Sex God Method, which explains everything step-by-step.

The Bottom Line

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In summary, screening women is the best way to get laid fast—and if you don’t know how to screen women, you’re SERIOUSLY missing out!

Most men waste hours talking to women who aren’t interested in them, but if you simply learn how to screen women, getting laid will be a breeze.

If you want to learn how to 10x your attractiveness to women, and learn how to become a man that hot girls are NATURALLY drawn to, then click here to learn about my 7 Strategies dating program.

Of course, I hope you guys enjoyed the article. If you guys have any questions or concerns, let me know in the comments section below—and as always, I’ll see you next time!

Frequently Asked Questions
❓ How Do You Get Laid?

The best way to get laid fast is to simply screen women hard. You can do this in a number of ways, but one great way is to start talking to her, and start flirting with her very quickly. If she is receptive, she's probably interested in sleeping with you fairly quickly.

Aside from this, dating applications are also a great way to get laid. In my experience, Tinder is the best, but Bumble and Hinge both work very well, too. There's a lot of different ways to get laid, but the fundamentals are all the same, though.

❓ How Do You Get Laid in College?

The best way to get laid in college is to join a fraternity. Become active in the fraternity, go out regularly, and eventually you'll meet a ton of girls that are into you. Most sorority girls will sleep with you, simply because you're in a fraternity, so getting laid is easy.

❓ How Do You Get Laid in High School?

The best way to get laid in high school is to join athletic clubs, and go to regular parties. High school is like a microcosm of college, so you must learn to become a social butterfly and make a lot of connections.

Simply put yourself in situations where getting laid can happen, like going to parties a lot, and eventually you'll find a girl who's attracted to you. From here you just talk to her, make her comfortable, and ask if she wants to watch a movie with you after the party.

❓ How Do You Get Laid Fast?

The best way to get laid fast is to either do so through Tinder, or cold approach on a Friday or Saturday night. In all honesty, Tinder is probably a lot faster, although it can take longer if the girls on there don't immediately respond to you.

The most important thing to remember is to screen hard. You can do this by flirting with a girl right off the bat, to know if she's interested in you, or just wants to keep things platonic. If she flirts back, escalate, and you'll get laid easy peasy.

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2 years ago

Women like you have full encyclopedias on how to get free shit from men.

3 years ago

Thanks for sharing this article so the women out there can identify EXACTLY what loser, douchebags like you use to trick us into you taking advantage of us. It helps us avoid you better and all of your little “fan …oops, I mean fuck boys.” Loser.

1 year ago
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oh F

5 years ago

Love it brother, The funny thing is, although I look for IOIs, I haven’t technically screened girls. Let me try it the next time.;)

Jon Anthony
4 years ago
Reply to  Alu

Haha, sounds good my dude 😉


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